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What is Your Perspective?

How do you “see” things in your role as a leader? How does changing perspective shift how you lead?

This week’s video blog explores these questions and looks for answers.

 

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John Whitehead, coach’s leaders to become more effective by helping them improve their interpersonal communications, emotional intelligence and resiliency.

*******Are you wondering if having a Leadership/Personal Development Coach is right for you? Contact John for a complimentary, exploratory coaching session at john@johnkwhitehead.ca********

 

So What is the Platinum Rule?

At some point in the workshop I conduct on interpersonal communications skills using the SOCIAL STYLEs model, I invariably make the comment that with the knowledge all of the participants have gained during the session comes great responsibility; that with what they have learned about communication and behaviours comes the responsibility of using that knowledge – they can’t unlearn what they have just learned. In the context of my workshop that means using what is referred to as the “Platinum Rule”, which is to “treat others as they wish to be treated” — the exact opposite of the better-known “Golden Rule” that most of us had drilled into us since we were kids: which is to “treat others how we wish to be treated”.

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What’s That Knocking at the Door: Stepping Out of Your Comfort Zone

“The lesson here is to be ready… be ready to step up and be uncomfortable ……get outside your comfort zone …. because those are the opportunities for real growth. Be ready to open that door when it knocks…. There is reason for you to be doing what you are doing, and it will become clear as you go along,  I can say this with confidence, because as I look back over the past 5 years, I’ve experienced it myself.”

 

John Whitehead, coaches’ individuals and organizations in becoming more effective by helping them improve their interpersonal communications, emotional intelligence and resiliency.

*******Are you wondering if having a Leadership/Personal Development Coach is right for you? Contact John for a complimentary, exploratory coaching session at john@johnkwhitehead.ca********

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How Do You Figure Out How To Manage Your Time & Tasks?

Task Management: Great time management means being effective as well as efficient. Managing time effectively, and achieving the things that you want to achieve, means spending your time on things that are important and not just urgent. To do this, you need to distinguish clearly between what is urgent and what is important:

 

You can also read my blog post: Soft Skill Management of Time (Dr Who take note) to learn more about this subject.

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Video – How Do Your Values Equate to Your Credibility?

If you had asked me nine to ten years ago to articulate the importance of vales and what mine were, I would not have been able to. It has been my learning journey, specifically over the past nine years that has enabled me to do so now….

How Do Your Values Equate to Your Credibility?

Over the years I have done several exercises both to determine and to measure my values. Our values are from what and where we operate. I have found that to be an effective leader I need to be clear about what my guiding principles are, which allows me to be clear about what I believe. This comes in handy when confronted with the issues, challenges and difficult conversations that I’ve often had to have. Knowing my core values allows me to set personal examples of what I expect of others. It also gives me a basis from which to manage and lead others, to follow through on commitments I have made, and to hold others accountable to shared values.

valuesIf you had asked me five years ago to articulate what I just did above, I would not have been able to. It has been my learning journey, specifically over the past five years that has enabled me to do so now.

I recently went through the process again of looking at my value system using a different tool. This tool, from Coaching Out of the Box: Personal Groundwork for Coaching, took me through what is called a Core-Essential Value Exploration in which you are asked a series of questions about people you admire, people in your inner circle, times you felt alive and things you loved to do as a child. Once you completed the survey you look for common themes and observations, then draw from it what you may describe as your possible core-essential values.

When I looked at the possible core-essential values provided and considered them based on the questions asked, these things jumped out at me: Truth, Discovery, Fun, Inspiring & Leadership. I then went back to some of my previous work on values discovery. Over the years these values have consistently been Family, Honesty/Integrity, Trust, Respect & Dependability. There are definitely some correlation between the two sets and as I re-visited the work I had completed in the workbook, the themes that reflected those same values came through again, loud and clear.

No matter what our values are, they drive our behaviour, which gives us among other things, credibility (Kouzes & Posner). As coaches we have the ICF code of ethics to guide us and provide credibility, but we also have our own personal ethics – values system – that provide credibility. How we “treat” and “view” our clients, employees, friends, family members will in the long run determine our success as much as anything else. Someone once observed that if you want to know the values of someone, watch how they treat a server in a restaurant or a clerk in a store.

Additionally, as coaches, knowing, recognizing and appreciating our own personal values helps us in assisting our clients to recognize and understand theirs.

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John K Whitehead & Associates assists individuals and organizations in becoming more effective by improving their interpersonal communications, emotional intelligence and resiliency.

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